Where were you then?

The 80's I was going to start my transition again but didn't know where to begin, no internet and the library had little information on what I didn't know how to ask for. That era alone had alot of things happen that stopped my transition for another twenty years. I was in the navy the first time which then came home, My mother died in the early eighties. Therapy for two years, speeding tickets and racing cars, cocaine, meth, pot and hash. Dating women of color, trying to find out who I was, learning all I can, growing my hair long, wearing what I wanted. Re enlisting in the navy, shaving my head, dancing in night clubs all over the world, different cultures. The trauma to three men and then marriage.

Yes I wanted to be Shauna more than anything, but I just didn't know how, I was just me.


Tonight I decided to listen to music that have awaken my memories, each song brings me back to that moment I first heard it.

So here is to waking up your memories and letting you live the 80's and 90's again.


The 80's


POP 90's



Rock 90's